Ronni  on July 6th, 2009

It’s a shame this had to happen but this should make men aware of what can happen just for a piece of ass when he had a beautiful wife at home now his sons have no father because of a crazy woman.

tiny los  on July 6th, 2009

See this is why my black brothers need to stop messing around and thinking the grass is greener with with the white woman! I love my black men and I hate when they diss a sister cause they think their better off!

no no no  on July 6th, 2009

tiny los, you need to take a closer look honey…cuz that heifer is NOT WHITE…get the hell on with all that sh**!

leigh  on July 6th, 2009

I agree it is all sad, sick and twisted. Steve could’ve adhere to wedding vow he made in God name and before family and friends. My heart goes out to all but especailly to the late immediate family. Mechelle I am very sadden for all of your pain spoke and unspoken. Please realize that you and your kids are the true victims here and the soure of it all is from “punk devil”. You need to forgive Him and live in that love you have for him. Keep your faith in Christ because he loves and cares for you. You are in our prayer and we’re expecting God to keep you in his precious hands. Be just what scriputre has call you to be “faithful”. Keep you head up and your thoughts rightous.

Wake Up  on July 6th, 2009

It sad for everyone involved. It is not about being black or white. I do believe as a married man he should have worked it out with his wife. Divorce is not the only option. However; if it has come to that they should get divorce first. As a female why would you want a man to leave his wife and four children. Is it for the money? Is it for love? How can you fall in love with a married man? His mistress and him were not high school lovers. What was the motive?

hburg  on July 6th, 2009

I think that she shot steve if you ask me. look at her look like bin laden daughter you know all them people crazy over there. man i hate that she killed but thats life

truth  on July 6th, 2009

this is why adultery is a sin. Because of one mans selfish act to get pleasure from another woman as if he could not get it from his wife, now his poor children have to suffer. this should be a lesson to all that faithfulls and honesty is the best key. and women please stop lowering yourself because of “love” she knew he wasnt going to divorce his wife to marry her thats why she killed the poor man and shot herself so she wouldnt live w. the guilt.

dmartin  on July 6th, 2009

I do know all the particulars of this matter, but steve should have either stuck to his wife and family or gotten a divorce. I do agree with one of the bloggers, why would you want a man to leave his family for you. What kind of relationship will you have with this man? What will stop him from cheating on you? God does not like adultry. I hope this is a lesson for all the faithful. I send all the families God’s blessing

Raven  on July 6th, 2009

This is not a black, white or other situation. It simply a case of a man cheating on his wife and family. The culture has nothting to do with it. He wanted a little something-something on the side, and reaped what he sowed — DEATH. Obviously this girl was deeply distured. She moved to Nashville at age 16 with her 19 year-old boyfriend. A server at Dave & Busters who had NO education. She wanted fame, and unfortunately, she got it!

As for Steve, bad move.

This should serve as a lesson for people, men and women, all over the world. Seek first the KINGDOM of GOD!

Fun in the Sun is overrated!

Brandi  on July 6th, 2009

Ah Tiny Los she is not white. So no he was not dissin a sista for a white woman. Look a little closer.

sg  on July 6th, 2009

I pray that God will have mercey on his soul, Some people think they could get away with things like, I’m so sorry for his children and his wife rather she did it or not,She is still his wife and if they wasn’t getting along, they should of separate, Some people cares more about what the others think and will stay in separate bed and on the outside let people think they are alright, Something went down, I have to agree with Raven, Seek God first, it’s hard at first but take it from me, it’s not going to kill you.
stay bless readers

sg  on July 6th, 2009

he’s not even that fine either

KOOLINC2  on July 6th, 2009

It is so sad to have a loss much less have to read ignorance. It doesn’t matter whom one chooses to be with we are all god’s children and to say that this is what happens when a brother starts seeing a white woman. Everyday there are killings all over the world and all races are involved. I am a white woman married to a brother as one puts it, but if one must ask would Dr. Martin Luther King judge a person by color no he had a dream for all people, and all people need to wake up and learn to deal and love one another. I was raised in a racist family and today i teach children to love everyone no matter the race of them. Stop all violence in this world it would make a better place to live

Eleana  on July 6th, 2009

Let’s look at this logically…A 16 year old from a war-torn country whose parents died there moves to Florida to live with an aunt…then at age 16 moves with her then teenage boyfriend to Nashville, waitresses at Dave and Busters…then meets this celebrity and starts dating him; he buys her a car and gives her a place to live…she’s got it all. Why would she kill him? Perhaps because she found out that she was only one of many he cheated with and he was never going to leave his wife for her. She was likely humiliated and simply committed an honor killing (murder-suicide). What I find confusing is the fact that no one in the complex hear six gunshots at sometime between 1 and 3am…Could have also been a hit. In either case, the real losers are the the children.

cassandra  on July 6th, 2009

Nigga cheating with a white bitch,and yes I said white, cuz to “ME” if not black then that’s what you are,got what he should have!!!I know it’s hard for the family but hey he made this bed and he’s GOING to lay in it!Before it even came out to the public I knew her motive was she wanted him to leave his wife,and clearly he was’nt.Women need to know when it’s only a fuck thing and not to take it personal.Steve McNair got what he deserves,lord please forgive me for saying,but he should have been home with his family.If I was his wife I would cremate that MF just for the hell of it and take that double insurance$$$$$$$$ and ball out of control with another nigga for him humiliating me that way and having to find out like this.To his wife and kids,sad but true. But fuck him for cheating and the same bitch take him from his wife and kids.

Sandra Leggroan  on July 6th, 2009

I agree with the w / the writer before me. Not so much because of the girlfriends race but, for Steve actions, Yes, He reaped what he sowed…………

Tresa  on July 6th, 2009

I agree with Cassandra 110%.

Tresa  on July 6th, 2009

In reply to KOOLINC2 Martin Luther King was also married to a black woman. How many white men do you see with black women on their arms? Very few, but a black man loves his
“CAVE BITCHES”.

Tresa  on July 6th, 2009

If he would’ve had his ass at home he would be alive. May his soul rest in peace.

Valorie  on July 6th, 2009

It’s very unfortunate Mechelle will now be a single parent rasing 4 boys without their father. As a wife and mother myself, I feel deep sorrow for her and their family. Steve McNair was great on the footbal field, but obviously lacked moral and spiritual convictions. I hope this is a learning experience for other players that frequently involve themselves in affairs with groupies and opportunists. Men (and women) need to be reminded that “what’s done in the dark will eventually come to light” for you truly will reap what you sew. I’m pretty sure the BRUTAL DEATH he suffered was not worth the 20 year old piece of ass.

LaToyia Palmer  on July 6th, 2009

First of all this is a very sad situation. I feel so sorry that his children will now grow up without a father. Imagine how these kids are going to feel when they are completley aware of the circumstances outlying their father’s death. This is a sad situation. But, unfortunately women of his Sahel’s class level only see dollar signs at a man like Steven Mcnair. There are women who make a career out of chasing professional atheletes and stooping to any level to get him in their grips. As low as trying to create a pregnancy after the fact. What these women need to do is get themselves educated and realize that it is important to obtain your own success. My father always taught me a man can walk away so you have to be able to stand on your own. These are words that I live by and that is why I have a BA and a Masters. I was also a woman in his wife’s shoes being the last person to know that your spouse was cheating. But, see some women feel like they have won something when they take a man from his . But, what one must remember is the way you get a man is the way you lose a man. Money isn’t everything and isn’t worth your dignity. Sahel was disrespectful because she knew the man had a wife. But, she saw it as getting a notch on her belt and showing her friends look what I did. But, sometimes we get caught up in our own webs of deception. God bless his wife and his family. Although he was not walking in the path as he should with God, he didn’t deserve to die in such a tragic and horrific manner. Trust me God deals with everyone in his own time. We all have to pay for our indescretions when God sees fit. But, again he didn’t deserve to have his life ended. Come on guys lets have some respect for the dead

Cheryl Nelson  on July 6th, 2009

Judge not, for we will be judge. I can not agree with Steve’s action that has come to light. However, you can not take away from the fact he was a humantarium that truly loved people. Trust my spirit, that was so real. He was an awesome, wonderful, and giving man that made the wrong choice when tempted. Therefore, his life is gone,but always remember for the good that he did!!!! God, lets us know that none of his children are perfect, and we all fall short of his Glory.

I pray for Mechelle and her wonderful boys. We are so quick to judge people, rich or poor alike. But, sometime we hurt so bad that we choose the wrong avenue. God loved Steve as he loves you and I when we make mistakes. Let us pray for our brothers and trust God that their heart will change before the Devil intervene. Let us have mercy!!!!Let us pray that something of this nature will not happen again. Steve McNair was a good man that made the wrong decision.

Bless God and he will always bless you!
Again, judge him not for you will be judge.

Mechelle, this too will past.

Andrea  on July 6th, 2009

Out of all of the blogs that I just read, I couldn’t agree with anyone more than I agree with more than Cheryl Nelson. We all know right from wrong, but God is our judge. And I thank him for that! I think every one is here for a reason and in everything there is a lesson. Someone somewhere will hear this story and make a better decision. People talk about the person he was, I’m sure he did other things that we know nothing about, but people are not judging him for those. The bible says no sin is greater than the other and God will forgive us for them all. We’ve all sinned, so we are no better than he is. We just have the opportunity say we’re sorry. I believe if Steve were here he would do the same. I see the good in people, but always know that their going to make mistakes.

I pray that his wife and kids in time remember that their husband and father was but a man that made a mistake. A mistake that he didn’t live to say he was sorry for. Remember the good times! My prayers are with them and the rest of their family. (I’m also going to pray for the mean bloggers, I love you guys. This is entertaining)

Jen  on July 7th, 2009

Steve McNair has a beautiful wife. Hard to see why he chose to sack a 20 year old gooney bird. Yes, gooney bird because that is what she looks like, check out her nose. A 36 year old man has no business with a person just coming out of adolescent. No real sense of responsibility yet, probably can’t even balance a checkbook, just infatuation with a big rich athlete and probably not much older than his kids. What a waste of life (which he got what he deserved) and if he thought it out real good he should have known that these arab women are used to the fact of sharing their men with multiple women. She should have hit on the president of Iran and lay off a man with 4 children. She is so damn ugly!!!!!

ty Dowdy Sr  on July 7th, 2009

ONLY (GOD) CAN JUDGE US NOBODY ELSE RIP # 9 MUCH LOVE

TY2K12  on July 7th, 2009

LETS NOT JUMP AND SPEND TIME THIS WAY UNTIL WE ARE SURE THAT EVER PEICE OF EVIDENCE IS RECOVERED. THE KEY QUESTION TO A SUICIDE IS THAT THE “GUN WAS FOUND UNDER HER” SO WHAT CLIBER IS THE GUUUN? PLEASE.

Brandy  on July 7th, 2009

To all who are saying this isn’t a black/white issues. You are right, but you are also wrong. It’s about this man who cheated on his family – openly – and got caught. In fairness it appears that he and his wife were seperated, only a fool would openly date and court and vacation with another person while commitedly living with their spouse. However, married is married. He wasn’t free to be with that “woman” until he was officially divorced. The fact that she was white, DOES intensify this situation because it’s like, he had a black wife, four black kids and had an affair with a 20 year old white (or mixed or whatever, but she wasn’t black) woman. I think what happened is he told that woman he wasn’t leaving his wife and she flipped out. Now he’s nobody’s husband.

CoachDad  on July 7th, 2009

Sg, what does how fine Steve is have to do with anything, some of the comments made here are just ignorant, this is not about black or white so please stop that mess. This man made a huge mistake that unfortunately cost him his life, if Kazemi did kill him which I believe is the case based on what has been said then she was obviously disturbed,I would like to say that my brothas have learned a lesson from this, but alas I know they haven’t this is a scenario happens quite often, but because of Mcnairs public status we hear about this one. My prayers go out to his wife and those 4 boys he left behind. Lastly stop putting blame on Kazemi, because all this could have been prevented had Mcnair simply gone home to is wife and kids. GOD BLESS you all

CoachDad  on July 7th, 2009

One last thing, Kazemi was Iranian not white, please people get your facts straight

Brandy  on July 7th, 2009

I’d be interested in hearing what a man thinks about this situation. This should definiately be a wake-up call to ALL men, cheating will get your killed. If your wife doesn’t kill you, some flipped out 20 year old may.

Brandy  on July 7th, 2009

Coach, she wasn’t BLACK – seriously,as a man you don’t understand how this affects black women. When a black man – especially a seemingly “good” black man, cheats on his woman/wife with a white woman (Irainian isn’t black) it’s saying to us “black isn’t good enough”. I don’t care what way you slice it, it’s still stings more than if she were black. WHY black men don’t understand that I’ll never know. Case in point, Halle Berry. Beautiful woman but all you hear from black men is how she chose that white boy, bla bla bla. It’s like, black men’s egos are too fragile to handle us getting a white man, but we are supposed to deal with ya’ll with white women – constantly. It’s a slap in the face.

A ASU BRAVE  on July 7th, 2009

We all do stupid things, but for some reason, some of us never get caught. Steve was not perfect, but he was good. Steve was not evil, but he showed humility. Can we plese do the same and leave the judging to God!

It is sad what happened, but when we meet people, we never know how that person will affect our live and the people we love lives. Remember that!

Brandy  on July 7th, 2009

Brave – you are right in that “when we meet people we never know how that person will affect our lives…”. But you should remember this…if he wouldn’t have cheated with this girl, he wouldn’t be dead. Simple. That is how she affected his life…she ended it.

Real woman  on July 7th, 2009

Thats good for his ass because he should have stayed @home with his wife and 4 children. I feel sorry for his wife and family. May God Bless the family Fuck Steve Macnair ass and the outside bitch also.

Barney Google  on July 7th, 2009

I think what we’ll find is that the ex-boyfriend, who has a volatile temper (like many men from that region), dropped by and found them together, shot Steve in the chest, then thought “wholly crap”, I am going to prison. Proceeded to shoot the marriage wrecker. Then pumped a few more shots into Steve’s head (for good measure) after seeing his dead girlfriend. Propped up the body and put the gun underneath. Rare that a body would fall on the gun, but a killer would think that makes it look like only she could have done it. Whole thing sucks but the punani makes men do some strange stuff.

Grate4-Girl  on July 7th, 2009

In my opinion, anyway you look at the situation it is truly a loss. Every party loses. The wife, children, husband, and girlfriend. The Bible states that the wages of sin is death but because we do things and don’t suffer the consequence right away we really don’t take it to heart but it is very true. What I hope and pray is that the family and friends are able to cope with what has taken place and move forward somehow.

geegee  on July 7th, 2009

As when someone does something that others are not proud of or judge them, I ask this. “CAN YOU WALK ON WATER”

Love is unconditional and until we as people learn to Love we will never know I it feels

mermaids614  on July 7th, 2009

I live in Nashville, and it is known that Steve loved his wife very much. I don’t believe that he told that young lady he was getting a divorce. That’s probably what she WANTED, but I don’t believe it. He started dating her in January and it’s well know that Steve has been married for years.I bet he was going to break it off with her because she was getting too attached, and that’s when she killed him. Mechelle McNair is a sweet and educated woman. Those photos do her no justice because she’s beautiful. I can’t believe he would leave her and marry a 20 year old high school dropout. She would not fit into the his image or lifestyle at all. They were just having fun and she couldn’t handle it.

geegee  on July 7th, 2009

I like how Michael’s family is wearing the white gloves, in honor of Michael

Barney Google  on July 7th, 2009

Hey, his wife did it. Look at her…….she set the whole thing up. It’s her fault. If she had been good to him, he wouldn’t have strayed. Typical. They blame it on the black man……when it was her all along. she should be arrested.

JC  on July 7th, 2009

The picture of the four women is not a picture of Mechelle McNair, Steve’s wife. That is a picture of Michelle McNair, a pastor’s wife. Those two pictures don’t even resemble each other. Michelle hasn’t changed since college.

Ken  on July 7th, 2009

First of all any death is sad. Second of all, judge not lest ye be judged. He without sin cast the first stone. Not you writing here can stand before a mirror and say you did nothing wrong. By the mere fact of your judgemental words you are, according to the bible, sinning! If he was still with his wife he was wrong for what he did but none of you are God. If she committed this act then she shall be spending the rest of eternity in hell and that is not the place anyone wants to be. I guess I see death all the time and I know that it means a soul has gone on to eternity. Those of you who stated those foul words and judgemental words, according to the bible, if you would’ve died the moment you stated them you too would be in the same hell as she is. No one knows what was said or done between the two of that lead up to this point. May God have mercy on them and their families.

Mixed  on July 8th, 2009

at least maybe his sons will grow up to be respectful faithful men since they see what can happen otherwise

BLACK WOMAN  on July 9th, 2009

You reap what you sow. MAY GOD BLESS MECHELLE MCNAIR AND THE CHILDREN. MECHELLE DONT WORRY, YOU’LL BE SMILING ALL THE WAY TO THE BANK ONCE THE HURTING IS GONE. HE DID YOU A FAVOR. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER.

Shelly  on July 9th, 2009

Let’s juss say McNair obviously had pretty bad taste and got what he deserved. How could he possibly be caught with that
ugly stray?

g diamond  on July 10th, 2009

the bottom line……steve disrespected his wife, his family unit and sahel..and any other women he slept with while..uh..MARRIED period.
of course no one should die such a horrible death.

men with their arrogant view of themselves makes me sick.

*a 36 yr. old man “dating” a 19 yr old?? come on give me a frickn break!
*met her at “dave and busters” where he ate with his “family”!!!
*what made him think (oh yeah he was thinking with his d**k) …that a 19 yr old girl would have the emotional maturity to handle an older married man who was married with children and famous?!
* and….he had NO intention of creating a life with her.
* she fell in love..can ya blame her?…and was left to deal with “other” women and the realization that he probably wasn’t getting a divorce.
* he took her on vacations!!!
* he lead her on!!
* and he was seeing other women (once a cheater..always a cheater).
* and why would a married man BUY a car for his very young girl friend who worked as a waitress…and then have HER make payments on the car?..thats just messed up.
* and do you really think in the 12 yr “marriage” with his wife that this is the FIRST time he had a “girlfriend” oh pleeasseee…i’m am quite sure there is a long line of girls he was sleeping with.
* the party is over.

**take notice stupid ass men**

FINE ASS WHITE GIRL  on July 11th, 2009

for you dumb ass bitchs who are focused on the color of this other dumb bitch’s skin sound like fools. You are all saying that it would be ok if this chick was BLACK right? Please had he been faithful and honored his word to GOD and his family his kids would still have a father. So stop with the white girl cause no matter what color her skin was he is dead based on his actions. Get real and stop playing the color game its lame and played out…………….

sANDRA wILLIS  on July 13th, 2009

Someone needs to tell Mechelle, if she recoeve a phone call from the Oprah show, she need to turn it down. All Oprah wants is to make money off this situation. Oprah care less about the African American Culture. Mechelle has been through too much for big ass Oprah to benefit.

Someone please get the message to Mechelle!

NO OPRAH SHOW!

mahogany  on July 19th, 2009

FINE ASS WHITE GIRL (Which I highly doubt)—Race does matter as that is why your kind go after black men in droves.Fact, which can’t be denied, you disrespect a black woman in every way you can think of & most of you give a shit less if a black man tells you he’s married & if the one he’s married to is black (as is most often the case) you go after him even harder (just listen to OJ’s exwife talk about that chic Nicole Brown and how she made her life a living hell).So, stop with your fronting as if your just some “innocent” party meaning no harm, when in fact, you mean a lot of harm.No woman should screw around with another womans husband and most obvious these doggish ass men shouldn’t be screwing around either BUT yes, it is worse that she’s white just as it would be if it happened to you.That’s just being real.(BUT let’s be honest–black women by and large aren’t going after white men too bad the same can’t be said in reverse).

CHUCK  on July 22nd, 2009

No matter what a man does on the football field,it’s what he does off the field that he will be remembered by.Let’s be real about this,Steve McNair was unfaithful to his beautiful wife and children.The bottom line is:he let a 20 year old up-start filthy whore cost him his life and his soul,I don’t care how much charity work he did,he was a drunk,a druggie,and an adulterer.Anymore questions?

CHUCK  on July 22nd, 2009

Steve may have made smart decisions on the football field,but it was a bone-head dumb-ass decision off the field that cost him his life.That ugly,immature slut was enjoying the sex and alcohol thinking all the time that “Big Steve” was gonna be the answer to all of her financial problems.When she realized that McNair was only in it for the pussy,reality sat in and she killed him and then herself to avoid spending the rest of her life in jail.C’mon Steve,she was an absolute bitch dog and you got what you deserved.That pussy wasn’t worth it,now was it?

Colin Thompson  on July 25th, 2009

I am scared of all the hatred in these letters. I don’t know where all this anger toward people you will never know even comes from. Some of you should be ashamed of your comments-they were horrible.

cathy ann  on July 29th, 2009

I feel so bad for the children and his wife. I also want to say that I listened to his retirement speech and said it was time for his wife and children now that he is retired so why did he have an apt in another state yes his restauraunt he needed that more than the family? Come on she new something this was her time now HELLO

Cynthia Leggroan  on September 19th, 2009

WEll, Well, Like my sister Sandra Legroan stated you reap what you sow..Maybe he should not have add that cream to his coffee.Cause now his little butt got smoked! What a shame..