lala  on September 3rd, 2009

I THINK KANDI IS TRIPPING NO ONE IN THERE RIGHT MIND AS PRETTY AND NICE AS SHE IS SHOULD BE WITH A GUY THAT HAS 6 KIDS… HER DAMN DAUGHTER HAS MORE SINCE THEN HER” “AND IF SHE GETS MARRIED TO HIM THATS ON HER HE’LL LEAVE HER AND HAVE SOMEONE ELSE SPENDING HER ALAMONEY… THINK ABOUT THINK ABOUT KANDI… HE HAS HOW MANY KIDS AND HOW MANY BABY MA’MAS AND THEY ALL ARE GANNA WANT CHILD SAPPORT….REMEMBER THAT….

Tamikadarden  on September 3rd, 2009

Lala I think you need to learn how to spell. I couldn’t even read your comment for trying to figure out what the h–l you were really trying to spell.lololol!!!!!

nicole  on September 13th, 2009

okay, does he make money? Now, i am all for her finding love, but Kandi, don’t get Federlined…that dude made brittany break up with her dayum self…watch ya money..girl but I am with you …if he makes you smile then be with him!! And all them kids…don’t listen to people they single and bitter….

VenusBull  on September 18th, 2009

Kandi–

You look beautiful and strong. Your face is glowing, and you look quite happy. You have decided to put your happiness first. Good for you! You only have one life to live. No one can live your life for you! Be happy, and remain prosperous. You handle yourself with way more class than Ne Ne who I would have to admit…is the most ghetto-est member of Real Housewives of Atlanta. Stay Strong Kandi!

jamicah  on September 28th, 2009

i would like to know if kandi and a.j. are together are not. i hear one day that they are not and now i’m hearing that they have a house together. someone please fill me in.

kat  on October 2nd, 2009

He’s dead!

tamtamwillia  on October 3rd, 2009

published at 1221am oct 3rd. He suffered severe head injuries during a fight at or outside a club, was taken to a hosp where he passed away.

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ms m&m  on October 3rd, 2009

Kandi-
my condolences go out to you and AJ’s family. Whatever problems, issues or concerns you guys had they were just that. Everyone wants to judge others, but fail to take a good look at themselves. One can not choose who they fall in love with, they just fall. Children are the future of society, what is the big deal as to how many kids he has and how many babies mommas there are. What about the childrens mother’s does this make them exempt for taking care of their children. If people would take responsibility for their actions, and endure whatever consequences that follow for those actions. Everyone is coming in on the tail end of something and do not know what the situation was. Remember there is three sides to every story. His, Hers and the Truth

LexiB  on October 3rd, 2009

I remember you posting something about Kandi and AJ and wanted to come by to let you know that he had been killed. Truly sad.

Speechless  on October 3rd, 2009

I just have no words right now. The love of my life was killed back in 1998 and I still get a lump in my throat just thinking about it. Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear that Kandi’s boyfriend is dead. May he rest in peace and may she find comfort in knowing that he loved her.

Paula Mooney  on October 3rd, 2009

I feel so sad for Kandi and AJ’s family right now — especially his children and their mothers.

God will get all you guys thru this. I’m sorry for AJ’s death. Lord help them now.

Shellz  on October 3rd, 2009

It’s called ebonics Tamikadarden!

Luvleea  on October 3rd, 2009

I would like to give my condolences to AJ’s family especially his children. My heart also goes out to Kandi. I know that this is a difficult time for her. I don’t think a man is a bad person to have six kids unless he is uninvolved in their lives. It is one thing to have kids but it makes you a good father if you put in the work that a true father does. It makes you a deadbeat to dessert them.

RIP AJ

Big Fan  on October 3rd, 2009

Kandi, I wish you peace right now. I understand what it feels like to have lost a loved one. Take all the along time you need and come out renewed with God’s peace. As for AJ and all his children, well he didn’t make them by himself. I would think that each one of those woman made the choice of having unprotected sex as well. Therefore they each decided to bring a child into this world for themselves and if they did it to catch or try to keep him them they were dumb. However the children are here but now they don’t have their father and no amount of money will change that. I applaud you Kandi for the willingness to be a part of that aspect of his life. My God bless you and keep you strong.

dquiett  on October 3rd, 2009

I would just say to Kandi much love and peace you are in not only our prayers but you brought a new flavor to the show be yourself and always keep that kind spirit

andrea lane  on October 3rd, 2009

I wish to express my condolences to you and the family of Mr. Jewell. Life is not only precious but a gift. I pray that when you think of Mr. Jewell your sorrow will turn into joy & happiness for the time that you had together. I pray that you find comfort in the loving arms of Jesus Christ and that during the days to come your family and friends will gather around you for love and support and somehow help to ease the pain that you are now having to go through. I really have enjoyed watching your show and the bond that you and Mr. Jewell displayed. Count yourself lucky as so many people search their entire lives hoping and looking for love and God allowed you two to find each other if only for a short time. I admire your strength as a young woman to look your critics in the eye and live your life loving your man. I don’t know what happens when the lights are turned off and the camera crews leave but I pray that the public and your fans allow you time to grieve such a tragic loss.I will pray for you, your family and Mr. Jewell’s family as they have lost a son, brother, uncle, cousin and most importantly a father. May the LORD bless you and keep you during these most difficult of times.

Peace  on October 3rd, 2009

Kandi,

I would like to give my condolences to you and AJ’s family. I think that you and Lisa is one of the coolest people on the show. I pray that you continue to move forward in life and let the haters make stronger. I love you and look forward to seeing you shine:)

divastatus  on October 3rd, 2009

My prayers go out to Kandi an AJ family. Stay strong an remember god only takes the best… God Bless

Shavone Miller  on October 3rd, 2009

God Bless you Kandi… I was just reading up on your last episode 9/30/2009, and made a comment about how you were the realest woman on the show. It just breaks my heart to find out what happened to A.J I am a 28yr old mother of twin boys. My oldest passed away after birth, I still can not come up with the right words of to give to you right now. I just want you to know..God has a plan for you, and stay strong. God will never put something on you that he thinks you can’t handle. My prayers are with you and your family. I know there are millions of negitive things people might throw at you regarding your relationship…hey they didn’t like Jesus so what are the odds of everybody liking us or our dessions. Stay strong Kandi, you will make it thru -Shavone

pretty1pink  on October 3rd, 2009

my thoughts and preyer goes out to u and A.J family.Ipreyfor u hope the god gives u the strenght to continue on with your prosperous journey!

mindy  on October 3rd, 2009

kandi hello my name is mindy and i lost my parents and i know how you are feeling right now and the best thing for you to do right now allow god to guide you through this and stay strong in the spirit of the lord my sister in christ and im prayer for you and your family and AJ’s family too so just keep your head up my sister we are all god childern, i love you and let god light shine through you in everything you do and take time to heal from this it ok cry and let all out given up to god because he’s knows what we all are going through so dont let these crazy people bring you down because no one can judge us but god .god blessyou ms.kandi and your familyand AJ’s family too.

PhellonBennett@Hotmail.com  on October 3rd, 2009

Negative,negative,negative!!! Yall please let these people live their lives. I’m sure yall have BS going on that needs to be handeled. Leave them folks alone please! So many negative bloggers and so much more negative comments as well. Let’s all smile together and say “hey,it is what it is”

Empress  on October 4th, 2009

Hey Kandi, i just want to say your the reason that i started back watching the show (and Lisa). I want to say I’m truly sorry about what happened and it seems like the devil is trying to attacked you or God is trying to grasp your attention. Just stop and figure out what God’s trying to show or tell you. You are so nice and i think we have alot in common, i turned to God and been feeling right every since. He could feel in all your empty spots that your feeling at this time and more, maybe you should consider it. God chooses the wise. Bless 1

ms.educated  on October 4th, 2009

Ms. Kandi.
My prayers & thoughts are with you & Aj’s family as you all endure such horrific pain & triumph. I too have suffered the lost of a loved one & know first hand the emotional roller coaster you’re experiencing @ this moment. I am 29 & a single mother of 3 & I lost my husband @ 22 my brother/best friend @ 27 & my grandma the same year so I will not tell you that “everything will be ok” because to do so minimizes your situation & does nothing for your hurt & anger. Instead, I’ll say cry when necessary, smile when needed, scream/yell whenever you like & grieve for as long as you want (:

Vontee  on October 4th, 2009

What were AJ and Richardson fighting about in the strip club parking lot?????????????

tnythorpe  on October 4th, 2009

Kandi my the LORDS presence be overwhelming in this season of sorrow. My it comfort you to know in our most difficult season’s the Lord carries us through the valley. I’m certain your mom feels some kinda way and she shouldn’t. She was just being the protective mom she was assigned to be. I’m sure she’ll be a great shoulder to cry on. Stay strong and know that God will supply all your needs.

Stacy Dash  on October 5th, 2009

Kandi i would like to say you are a really strong women and i want to say at a time like this there’s only 1 person that can get you through this and that’s Jehovah.Don’t worry about the negatives that people are talking about they’re just people. You are a wonderful person and have a gigantic heart. Alot of people are just envyous of you.Focus on what matters.

Stacy Dash  on October 5th, 2009

Kandi i would like to say you are a really strong women and at a time like this there’s only 1 person that can get you through this and that’s Jehovah.Don’t worry about the negatives that people are talking about they’re just people. You are a wonderful person and have a gigantic heart. Alot of people are just envyous of you.Focus on what matters.Have my smpathy for A.J.and your uncle.

stacyandbrian2@hotmail.com  on October 5th, 2009

Love u kandi.my heart goes out to u.

stacyandbrian2@hotmail.com  on October 5th, 2009

From newark,ohio.god bless u kandi.u r loved

lovd94  on October 6th, 2009

i personall y think this is saaaaddddddd!!!!! they were just about to get married….she is my favorite housewife on REAL HOOUSEWIVES OF ATL!!!!AND I LIVE IN ATL SOOO THIS IS BIG NEWS HERE!!!!!!!!!!!

-lOVD

neffie66  on October 6th, 2009

Kandi

Trust in God with all thine heart lean not on your own understanding in all thy ways acknowledge him and he will direct your path…..He is the only Judge!

san  on October 7th, 2009

May God continue 2 bless u an AJ’s kids u r doing the right thing by staying 2 ur self until da smoke clears. If u need to get a way with an old traditional fam let me know we are here 4 u and da kids.

i am joy  on October 8th, 2009

Kandi stay the person u r, beautiful inside and out. Stay strong and walk with the lord. He won’t give u anything u can’t handle.

kaykie1  on October 8th, 2009

Kandi, you are a lovely sister with a beautiful spirit. I feel your loss and my heart aches for you. Keep your head up because the LORD does not make mistakes. We don’t like the way AJ left but the Master was ready for him. Peace to you and yours. Take care………

donna  on October 8th, 2009

KANDI MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND THE KIDS,AJ MOM,FAMILY AND FRIENDS.MY HEART BREAKS AT THE LOSE YOU SUFFER.PAY ATTENTION WORLD IT’S ALL TO SHORT[LIFE] FOR US TO NOT STOP AND LOVE EACH OTHER.PLEASE FORGIVE THIS MAN AS GOD HAS FORGIVEN ALL OF US.I’LL PRAY FOR SISTER,KEEP YOUR HEAD UP,LIFE IS STILL JOYFUL WHEN WE REMEMBER KING CHRIST JESUS[MAY JOY COME IN THE MORNING].I MUST GO THE TEARS AND THE PAIN I FEEL NOW IS TAKING ME TO MY REFUGE[JESUS]COME GO WITH ME ,IT’S THE ONLY ESCAPE I KNOW.STOP ALL THE FIGTHING,LOVE IS THE ANSWER.PLEASE PRAY FOR ME I’M DONNA TURNER IN NEED TOOOO!

neladarling29  on October 9th, 2009

My family and I want to give our deepest sympathy to Kandi and A.J.’s family. May god bless you and give you the strength to get through this.

Tea  on October 9th, 2009

Love you Kandi, My prayers are with you!!!

Donna Le Page  on October 15th, 2009

Please tell Kandi – everyone prays for her and
AJ’s Family! God has a day and time for all of
us and she will see AJ again when her time is up.
Much love and prayers always! Marland Fan Donna

Rip mah nigguh  on October 15th, 2009

Wow, i just had a death in the family and with MJ dying this has been a chaotic year.

kandi if you need some real goons to kill the nigguhs that wacked AJ u know who to call up.. i will gladly blow some heads off for you.

sarafoust  on October 17th, 2009

Kandi-

My condolences go to you, the children and to all mothers including yours honey. Prayers for all of you will be lifted up this evening. You are a strong Christian woman. Take your time to grieve, remember that he is seated at Jesus’ feet right now waiting for Jesus to return to Earth and bring you both together again. Keep faith, say your prayers and know Jesus IS your healer. God Bless you, Sweetheart.

Your sister in Christ,

Sara

“13:Brothers, we do not want you to be ignorant about those who fall asleep, or to grieve like the rest of men, who have no hope. 14:We believe that Jesus died and rose again and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him. 15:According to the Lord’s own word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left till the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep. 16:For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. 17:After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. 18:Therefore encourage each other with these words.”
(Thessalonians 4:13-18)

CARMEN  on October 29th, 2009

KANDI. YOU AND AJ WERE SUCH A CUTE COUPLE. I KNOW THERE IS SOMETHING REALLY GOOD IN STORE FOR YOU.GOD DOESNT LET SOMEONE LIKE YOU BE SAD,AND NOT MAKE UP FOR IT.